10 Gay Coming-of-Age Movies to Watch This Back-to-School Season

There’s nothing quite like going back to school. New classes. New friends. New crushes. And, sometimes, the first glimpse of the person you’re becoming.

For September, Dekkoo Selects is going Back to School with a collection of gay coming-of-age movies and LGBTQ+ short films about first love, friendship, sexual discovery and those unforgettable moments when everything begins to change.

From high school crushes and complicated friendships to first encounters and unexpected awakenings, these ten films capture growing up in all its exciting, awkward and occasionally heartbreaking glory.

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Wild Tigers I Have Known

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Director Cam Archer’s provocative queer classic follows Logan, a lonely teenage boy navigating his emerging sexuality and an intense, unrequited attraction to an older boy at school.

Unable to express what he wants openly, Logan creates a female alter ego over the phone, blurring fantasy, identity and desire. Dreamlike and deeply personal, Wild Tigers I Have Known captures the confusion and longing that can accompany discovering your sexuality before you have the words to fully understand it.

Screams From the Tower

It’s 1995, and best friends Julien and Cary are heading into their junior year of high school.

When Julien gets the chance to host an edgy local radio show, the experience forces him to confront more than his ambitions. Writer-director Cory Wexler Grant turns the teenage search for identity into a funny and heartfelt gay coming-of-age story about friendship, self-expression and figuring out where you belong.

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One Kiss

Being an outsider is a little easier when you don’t have to do it alone.

In the Italian drama One Kiss, high school outcasts Antonio, Lorenzo and Blu form a close friendship as they push back against the bullying and judgment surrounding them at school. But when Lorenzo reveals his feelings for Antonio, jealousy and complicated emotions begin testing their bond.

Director Ivan Cotroneo’s acclaimed film is a powerful story about friendship, sexuality, homophobia and the consequences of being treated as different.

Big Boys

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Sometimes your first big crush arrives when—and where—you least expect it.

In Corey Sherman’s warm and funny coming-of-age comedy Big Boys, teenager Jamie heads out on a family camping trip only to discover himself increasingly attracted to his cousin’s boyfriend.

What follows is a tender sexual awakening filled with confusion, embarrassment and the realization that Jamie’s feelings might be telling him something important about himself.

Big Boys is a charming reminder that figuring out who you are rarely happens according to plan.

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Golden Boys

Going back to school can mean something very different when you’re no longer a student.

In the short film Golden Boys, three thirty-something friends break into their old private school hoping to recapture a little of their youth. Instead, memories from their adolescence force them to confront the difference between the boys they once were and the men they have become.

It’s a thoughtful look at the way our formative years can continue shaping us long after we’ve supposedly grown up.

Boyfriends

Billy and Kevin reunite after spending a long time apart, and their reunion quickly becomes intimate. But as the encounter unfolds, it becomes clear that their relationship—and what this moment means—is more complicated than it initially appears.

Director C.J. Arellano’s Boyfriends is a sexy, surprising short about intimacy, love and the stories we tell ourselves about our relationships.

Boy Undone

After meeting at a gay nightclub, two young men go home together. The next morning, one of them discovers that he can’t remember who he is.

As the pair searches for clues about his identity, their attraction continues to grow—but so does the sense that something dangerous may be waiting beneath the surface.

Part romance, part mystery and part journey of self-discovery, Boy Undone gives the idea of “finding yourself” an unexpectedly literal twist.

Shower Boys

How do boys learn the rules about masculinity—and what happens when friendship crosses a line they’ve been taught not to cross?

In Christian Zetterberg’s acclaimed Swedish short Shower Boys, two young teammates challenge one another’s boundaries after a heated training match. What begins as an innocent game raises larger questions about intimacy, masculinity and what boys are allowed to feel for one another.

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Young Diego

First encounters can be exciting. They can also be terrifying.

In this intense short film from directors Osama Chami and Enrique Gimeno, a young gay man prepares to meet a stranger for his first sexual encounter.

Running just a few minutes, Young Diego captures the anticipation, vulnerability and uncertainty that can accompany taking a major step into the unknown.

The Last First Time

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Leaving home can change everything.

In the award-winning Mexican romance The Last First Time, 18-year-old Eduardo travels from his small hometown to Guadalajara to take his college entrance exams. Away from his parents and the familiarity of home, a chance encounter opens the door to his first experiences with love, sexuality and independence.

Director Rafael Ruiz Espejo’s feature captures that exhilarating moment when the world suddenly becomes bigger—and when discovering another person can also mean discovering yourself.

Learn more about The Last First Time or watch it as part of September’s Back to School collection.

Class Is Back in Session on Dekkoo

Coming of age doesn’t happen in a single moment. It happens through friendships, first crushes, mistakes, heartbreaks, unexpected encounters and all the experiences that slowly reveal who we are.

September’s Dekkoo Selects: Back to School brings together ten gay movies and LGBTQ+ short films exploring those experiences from wildly different perspectives.

Whether you’re looking for a heartfelt gay romance, an acclaimed queer coming-of-age movie or a short film you’ve never seen before, consider this your September watchlist.

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The queer indie classic ‘Wild Tigers I Have Known’ comes to Dekkoo

Visionary director Cam Archer is a master at portraying the lives of teens in awkward gay love.

Originally released in 2006, Wild Tigers I Have Known was a hit at the Sundance Film Festival – as well as countless LGBTQ+ film festivals all around the globe. The film stars Malcolm Stumpf as Logan, a middle schooler who is crushing on an older classmate named Rodeo (Patrick White). As the pair spend time together, Logan’s infatuation grows.

Exploring gender fluidity for the first time, he invents a female persona named ‘Leah’ and starts making sexually provocative phone calls to Rodeo at night, hoping to get even closer to the object of his affection. Meanwhile, wild mountain lions have been straying into the populated areas of town. When one happens to wander onto the school’s campus and is shot dead, it signifies an important moment in Logan’s coming-of-age.

For the film’s 15th Anniversary, indie distribution label Altered Innocence put together a restored version of this long-unavailable experimental queer classic.

Kim Dickens and Fairuza Balk co-star in this wildly inventive, achingly sympathetic ode to the highs and lows of adolescent love.

Watch the trailer for Wild Tigers I Have Known below. The newly restored version is now streaming on Dekkoo.

The lost queer classic Wild Tigers I Have Known has been restored and remastered for its 15th Anniversary

A 13-year-old boy learns to cope with his newfound sexuality and his unrequited love for the coolest kid at school in this lyrical coming-of-age indie from visionary director Cam Archer.

After being work-shopped at the 2005 Sundance Screenwriter’s Lab, Wild Tigers I Have Known had its world premiere at the 2006 Sundance Film Festival where it earned stellar reviews from critics. The film went on to be screened at New Directors/New Films Festival, London International Film Festival, Locarno International Film Festival and AFI Film Festival.

Despite great word-of-mouth, the film was heavily re-edited before being released theatrically by IFC Films in 2007. This shorter edition changed the sound as well as the order of the scenes, making them chronological. The edited version also leads to a completely different interpretation of the film’s events and themes – one not in line with the director’s original intent. In Europe, where the film was released on DVD only, the film was trimmed down to an even shorter 1 hour and 13 minutes.

In honor of the film’s 15th Anniversary, the indie boutique distribution label Altered Innocence has restored and remastered the film, presenting the full uncut version as Cam Archer envisioned it.

Watch the new trailer for Wild Tigers I Have Known below. The film is available now on Dekkoo.